went for SRC AD and UOL's Bash last thurs.. held at Furama hotel and Phuture respectively..

if you are me how was it, i will say it's ok lor..

abit under-dressed for the AD itself.. so mood was rather ruin prior to the dinner.. didnt got any luck for the lucky draw during the dinner.. but it's alrite cos i dont feel lucky at all..

after AD, transport was provided to send us to Phuture.. met up with the few of the pinkies for pre-drinking.. i'm not a person who's really into clubbin.. so to me, pre-drinking sessions are always the best..! many got quite high before they enter the club..! so i ended up taking care of the gals again.. jus before entering the club, i'm sober again..

i didnt dance at all, at most sway to the music.. bought 2jugs of long island tea and got more ppl wasted.. bad me.. but well.. i still took care of the wasted throughout the night except for times i was away for a while.. am really sorry..!!!

after clubbing, 3of us sat outside the club till early in the morning and were the last to leave tat place.. HTHT most of the time.. now 2more ppl noes... but so..!? the main person seems to be much unaffected by obvious thing.. oh well..

had tiong bahru lor mee (: before headin home, and slept quite alot.. ):

the clubbin experience is okay onli.. and it shld be the last before my prelims and exams.. so ya..

anyway, i got myself iphone already. after much considerations..

mood= :(

wat will u do when the onli way of method of communicating with the impt person seems to be gone..!?! ):

someone recently sent me tis sms::

"男人就比洋葱，想要看到男人的心就需要一层一层去剥!

但在剥的过程中你会不断流泪，剥到最后你才知道洋葱没心的。"

wat tat person tryin to imply is tat guys are heartless..

i replied, "perhaps all guys have their own bad ba.."

the next reply was "没有心的真坏人并不可怕，可怕的是假好人。"

well, the conversation leads to saying tat i'm a 假好人.

so my reply was, 'since u categories guys into fake-good and bad guy, at least i'm not a bad guy..'

well apparently, she was rather serious about me being the 'fake-good' guy.. and tat means for the pass few months of knowing me, whatever i did was not real..!?!

tis really affects me quite abit..!! seems like my impression in ppl around me got this kind of response.. i'm disappointed.. disappointed in myself.. haiz..

but heck.. i dont care wat you think at all.. since you find wat i did are all fake, den DONT COME NEAR ME AT ALL..!! i dont need ppl who dont appreciates whatever i did..! Thanks for tellin me wat i am like to ppl around me..

SORRY if i really prove myself to be a 假好人..

spent the weekend at cleaning..!! but not my own room or my own house..!! spent the 2days cleaning my grandma's kitchen's window grills..!!

Saturday, i was at home, until my mom suddenly call from my grandma's house.. asking me if i'm free to help to 'wipe' the window.. at that point of time, i was zuma-ing(i think) so i'm consider as free ba.. so went over and help with the lights first.. after which, started with the window grills.. then i realised it is not as simple as 'wiping'.!! it had a layer of oil on it..!! using CIF and the cloth, i simply couldn't wipe the oil off.. so i decided to try using my finger nails to scrape it off..

to my surprise/horror, the layer was that thick..! you can actually see the difference in the thickness on the window grill..!! so ended up took near 2hours for the grill nearest to the stove.. that's just one of the 4 grills..!! so, took rest, had dinner and went home..

woke up at 6 this morning and went to continue with the 'project'.. so, completed 30% more of the project and went for breakfast with my ahma at 9plus.. returned to my grandma's home at 11 and finally completed the project at 1..!! 100% done..

my second auntie even ask if i'm available to help her clean.. she will be paying me by hourly rate.. but the thing is i don't even have time for my own room and house..! anyways, seeing the tough 'project', i tell my mom, "this windows must be clean once a month. cannot leave till new year then clean one.' guess what my mom told my grandma..!? "JunWei says he coming to help you clean the window once a month..!" oh well, i just volunteered myself unknowingly.. -.-

nevertheless, i haven't touch any of my notes this week end.. hope i will have more time next week ba.. :)

argh...!! why are u so cute (to me)..!?

The 90/10 Principle
Author : Stephen Covey ( Management Guru)

Have you read this before? Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change
your life (at least the way you react to situations).

What is this principle?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react.

What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.

How?
By your reaction. You cannot control a red light., but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let's use an example. You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react.You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.

She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work.

You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why?
Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is " D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same.
Both ended different.

Why?
Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?
Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? (A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off)Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?

WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job. The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.

The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result?
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.

It CAN change your life!!!

I really felt that this principle brought to me brand new perspective of how to look at certain scenarios. If u feel that this principle helps u, forward it to ur frens and family... :D

everyone has different views of perfections or rather different views on wat's right..

when u care about a particular person, u will wish tat he/she be the 'best'.. but that's according to wat you regards as 'best'.. so to them, or to others, u might be not helpin.. this is common..

for example, when one party thinks tat somethings tat the other party did is wrong, the former will try to 'change' the person.. however, tis is normally not wat the latter can accept.. thus, when this happens, both parties might get into a small argument.. well, such arguments can be avoided..

jus look at the situation from a third person's angle.. ultimately, the main cause of the argument is because of one party's intention to change his/her partner to a better person.. thus, there's really not much reason to start tis kind of argument at all..

but yet again, most people wont like it when they are being controlled or when they are being 'told off'.. so 难免will be unhappy.. but, so, like i say before, jus look at it at a different angle..

2persons get together isnt a easy thing.. cherish the person whom cares for you much..! this applies to friends too.. it's really fate tat bring 2 strangers to get to know each other and eventually be friends..

so cherish the ppl around you..

Smile..!! =D

imperfection

nice pic..!!

tis morning wanted to go swim.. but it started rainin even before i reached home.. so end up didnt.. stay at home and did some other pt anyways..

went to sch for POA.. same lt wif no reception.. class ended, waited for the rest and head to Makan Place for YTF..!! first time with so many ppl..!! HanZhong, JinKai, Vivian, Denise, Shiqi, Jolyn, Jared, Judith and Me..!!! after which some stayed behind for revision..

Today is the most ineffective revision day..!!! ended up playing monopoly deal..!! guilty much..

nvmidontevenhavethemoodanyway...

tis was the layout of my blog last time.. kinda miss the design and the character.. so brought it back..!! more editing to be done(to be exactly like last time)..

=D

today is jus another typical SUNDAYs during my NS period (minus the bookin in)..

woke up early and went to waipo's hse.. was slightly late actually.. anyways, help with the kueh selling and after tat sweepin and mopping her hse.. den slept on the chair and drove my mom home..

afternoon drove my auntie home(hougang)..

evening wash family car..

tat's my typical Sunday (during NS)..!!

how uneventful......